Shapiro Negotiations

Influencing: Communication with a Goal in Mind

Influencing is communicating with a goal in mind. In essence, influencing is a requesting process. You are requesting that the other person (or group) do something or achieve an outcome. Because you are making a request, there is inherently more accountability for both parties, thus more potential risk of tension, misunderstanding, defensiveness and conflict. Often […]

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Back to Basics

Relationship Value SNI believes that Relationship Value is the product of: 1. The level of TRUST you gain from a person. 2. The level of CREDBILITY you have with a person. 3. The amount of VALUE that you deliver to a person. Trust Trust is defined as firm reliance on the integrity, ability or character

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Probing Past Positions

Probing Past Positions Probing effectively does not just work in fictional negotiations. Often, our seminar participants share their own success stories involving their ability to “probe and probe again” to get past the other sides positions and uncover their true interests. Recently, we heard from a banker who specialized in real estate loans. He had

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Do More with Less and Prove It: Training ROI

According to the latest annual report by Training Magazine, U.S. organizations spent $58.5 billion for training (including payroll and training budgets) with $16.3 billion spent on external learning products and services. While growth in the training industry tailed off (6% growth versus 7% in 2006), staffing and training budgets increased by 4.8%. Breaking it down

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